My secret sauce

My unique human capital:

1.     I am always a very calm and collected person, even in times of crisis. I like to be rational when I make decisions and try not to let situational/temporal emotions cloud my perception. I trust that the decisions I make will work out for me in the long run and don’t unnecessarily stress myself.

2.     My sense of humor has a wide range and I can be a goofball if I am feeling like making myself/others laugh. I pride myself in being witty and able to see the irony or comedy behind certain situations. I can also be an entertainer through my actions if I chose, such as dancing, body language, and eye contact.

3.     I am technology oriented and able to troubleshoot most devices and work my way around new software. I grew up around computers, phones, mp3s, video game consoles, TVs, speakers, etc. and always keep up with the latest updates. I may not know how to do everything, but I know how to follow technological instructions when I receive them from a live person or the Internet.

4.     I am a good communicator because I hate to bite my tongue and regret not saying something. I am vocal when I have a strong opinion and I’m not hesitant to talk to strangers if I want to strike up a conversation. I try to give good advice and tell people my honest opinion about something if they ask for it.  

5.     Finally, something that may or may not be evident by now, is my general disinterest in the opinions that others have of me. Don’t get me wrong; I enjoy compromising with friends over disagreements and I avoid conflict whenever possible. However, I am deliberate and confident with my decisions and don’t give into people’s frames under pressure. I want people to like me and I love expanding my social circle, but I won’t give into peer pressure if it means losing my values.

Interview takeaways:

1.     My sister told me that I was very determined and I solve problems quickly when a situation arises. She also mentioned that I was confident and don’t let things get to my bed. Finally, I am technology savvy and reliable when she needs me.

2.     My roommate told me that I had a good taste in music and a good sense of humor. He also said that I was a trustworthy confidant that he can count on to keep a secret.

3.     My gym partner told me that I was adventurous since we always go to cool restaurants and nature spots. He also said that I was reliable and a good caretaker. Finally, I am a good motivator because I drag him to the gym even if he doesn’t want to go.

4.     One of my friends pointed out that I was easy to talk to since we always chill. He also said that I was reliable and I manage my time correctly. Finally, he complimented my energetic personality and how I can be naturally funny and uplifting.

5.     Another friend said that I was responsible since I help him stay on top of his fraternity leadership. Also, I am spontaneous because I love exploring nature and going out. Finally, I am motivating because I encourage him to study with me and get his work done.

My friends value many aspects of my personality that I didn’t even think of. However, all 5 things I put in my list still managed to come up! My interviewees definitely know me and I don’t disagree with anything they said. I have a dynamic personality and I can be calm or goofy, determined or chill, depending on the situation and what is appropriate. I really value my spontaneity and I’m glad I am seen as a reliable, confident, energetic person. I would not make any changes to my initial list, though. This assignment was the most fun one yet!